Forgiveness doesn't mean you accept the person back into your life.It doesn't mean you condemn what they have done to you.You are not saying what they did to you was okay.Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could of been any different.You leave that behind and move forward with the grace God has given to you. I saw God today http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q06AvQF5NOw